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Ways of improving our emotional self-awareness

Emotional self-awareness is crucial for managing our emotions effectively, allowing them to work in our favor rather than against us. It also enhances our understanding of others’ emotions, improving our relationships. Here are some suggestions to boost your emotional self-awareness:

  1. Recognize Your Emotions: Become familiar with the various emotions you experience.
  2. List Intense Emotions: Write down the most intense and frequent emotions you feel.
  3. Practice Self-Reflection: Take a step back to observe your emotions as they arise. Look in the mirror and acknowledge how you feel: “Right now, I’m feeling hurt, angry, or overwhelmed.”
  4. Differentiate Emotions: Learn to distinguish between similar emotions, such as liking versus loving someone, or feeling jealous.
  5. Tune into Your Body: Pay attention to the physical sensations that accompany your emotions; they can provide valuable insights.
  6. Acknowledge Positive Emotions: Recognize and embrace the “dynamic” emotions that boost your self-esteem.
  7. Document Supportive Influences: Write down situations, people, and events that promote these positive emotions.
  8. Identify Negative Triggers: Similarly, note down situations, people, and events that trigger negative or catastrophic emotions.
  9. Accept Your Emotions: Embrace your feelings and moods with compassion, understanding they are a natural part of who you are.

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Avra Lyraki (Ph.D. MCC, ICF)

Global Executive Communication Coach (MCC, ICF) | Government & C-Level Communication Mentor|ICF Assessor, ACTC & Mentor Coach| TEDx Speaker| HBR Advisory Council Member