Test your objectivity
While reality is subjective, as highlighted in the film “What the Bleep Do We Know?”, our so-called “objective” view is often shaped by who we are rather than by how things truly are. Striving for a closer understanding of actual events can help protect us from many unpleasant situations. Here are some suggestions to enhance your sense of objectivity:
- Confront Facts: It’s easier to address facts by examining the immediate situation instead of jumping to conclusions.
- Examine, Don’t Speculate: Focus on analyzing situations rather than making assumptions.
- Put Things in Perspective: Concentrate on the significant aspects of a situation rather than getting bogged down by the trivial.
- Seek Objective Data: Look for concrete evidence to support your feelings and arguments.
- Analyze Correlations: Reflect on the connection between your experiences and the actual events.
- Evaluate Your Thoughts: Assess the accuracy of your emotions and ideas rather than relying solely on intuition.
- Gather External Information: When forming an opinion about someone or something, collect as much external information as possible to inform your perspective.
- Share Your Feelings: Discuss your feelings with others to gain different viewpoints, which can help you see facts more clearly.
- Stay Grounded in Reality: When feeling sad or angry, consciously focus on reality. Ask yourself how rational your reaction is compared to the actual facts.
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Avra Lyraki (Ph.D. MCC, ICF)
Global Executive Communication Coach (MCC, ICF) | Government & C-Level Communication Mentor|ICF Assessor, ACTC & Mentor Coach| TEDx Speaker| HBR Advisory Council Member